Living in a five star hotel has its glories but since I cannot leave my “lovely tower” it has its challenges. I wanted to come up with a surprise for our monthly anniversary but I knew it had to be something I involve my husband in as well. You can read about my idea later on.
My husband and I became a couple (kissed for the first time) 122 months ago. We celebrate this every month.
I know why we are still madly in love. Macarons…
MY LIST OF WISDOM:
1. We Stick Together. We Are Loyal To One And Other.
You might have a mother you love “more than anything” or a sister you feel needs your support but Your Man should be number one.
2. Be kind.
Even if you disagree on something do not be cruel to your partner. You can be assertive as hell. You can point out how hurt you are but he is on your team he is not aiming to do you harm on purpose.
3. Help Him Help You Become More Attractive.
If you ask: “am I fat?” Be prepared for honesty. But hey! Men can help you with constructive solutions. They can be fun to work out with.
Here is something else for you: they know what they find sexy.
Why not ask on some nights (dates): “what would you like me to wear tonight?”
4. Try To Show Some Interest Girl!
I got my husband to try out an aerobics class with me some time ago. Why? Because I told him I would really like it if he would join me one time.
We moved to Barcelona because of his MBA program and he always told me with glowing eyes what he learned at school. I always know a lot about his work. I let him tell me about Bill Simmons, Seth Godin or Mark Suster. And yes, it can be difficult to understand venture capitalism but trying to show interest as often as possible is very important in a relationship.
5. Funny Bunnyness is crucial.
Being playful, having a good sense of humor is essential. The degree of it is up to the two of you. I will never make anal jokes like my sister whom my husband adores but I can still make him laugh.
Bare with me! Here comes the part about the macarons…
My husband loves them and I know a restaurant that makes them home-made. We have met the owner a few times. Lek is a sweet-heart with such taste for style! I love looking at his pictures showing his outfits of the day.
I told Lek that we are dropping by for those yummy macarons. I personally dislike them but your present to your loved one does not have to sweep You off your feet.
I asked my husband what he would love to see me wearing. Answer: shorts and one of His shirt.
10 macarons were eaten by such delight today… HAHA
What do you think is the key to a strong relationship?